would you prefer simple (not necessarily rich or poor) and not popular or a bigshot (either a popular person or someone who decessions affects the nation)
-i myself prefer simple, dont like much responsibility and never wanted to be popular, no privacy and all….
Simple life. More time can be devoted to personal issues, life and immediate family matters if your responsibilities don't include a larger population.
Don't get me wrong, I get enjoyment from my responsibilities. I gain satisfaction from knowing that my family and friends can count on me.
I guess someone that takes on extra responsibilities gets the same satisfaction from a larger population, plus they get their ego fed by being famous or popular. It's just not what I am looking for.
It is much more important for me to have my partner and my kids look at me with that love in their eyes and knowing they don't have to share me.

Blur